" Weekend to weekend “ Last week Saturday Tat and I went to K-Mart and bought a sleeper sofa love seat thingy. Billiam said we had to get a bigger couch for him to sleep on so we used his money to get it. Their sister is moving in with their mom to help take care of her and Billiam agreed that was a good idea so he gave up his room there for her to use. He is hardly there anyway. He would rather flop at our house anyway. I do not like that idea cause he also expects me to cook and do his laundry. I will let him eat if I cook for my house but I will not do his laundry and if he thinks that my washer and dryer should be all ready for him to use his has another thing coming there too. I have 4 adults living full time at my house now and he only will show up a few days ever few months. He has no priorities there. If no one is washing when he gets there and he has laundry fine he can use it but I will not do it for him. He can go ahead and take his stuff to his mom's for all I care. We got the sleeper home and my son helped get the big box into the house but we did not even open the box. It sat in the kitchen that night and the next day Sunday was plans of rearranging. Sunday was also Baby day like normal. Bear was not home and Tat got up late so only I went with my son's family to breakfast. We went to a different place this time and it was good. There was no buffet but the food was good and the prices were not bad. Baby girl sat next to me most of the time but since we were in a corner booth she would jump over Jedi and seat next to her Dad too. Baby boy was in a highchair next to me and his mom so it all worked out well. Baby girl and her Daddy were talking back and forth and her Dad was teasing her so she turned to him and said, "You're a turd girl." The way she said that and the look on his face cracked me up so bad that I laughed till I had tears coming out my eyes. My son asked what would you do if she was at your house all the time? I said cry all the time. I just love being a grandma. When we began getting the sleeper out of the box the kids looked on the big box with awe. We both told them go for it get in the box. We had some very happy kids then. All three of them got in that box and even had it folded shut so they were out of our hair for a bit while we moved things. Till the snow from the Styrofoam they tore up began coming out and the box was in the way that it had to go outside then had fun. It became to hard to get it all done with them all there so I called my daughter-in-law to come get them. I had warned her that might happen. Once they were gone we got down to business and found a place for everything and I got the whole room vacuumed. I like how we have it nice and roomy open. My daughter-in-law brought baby girl back over and asked if her and her brother could come over while they took Jedi home. Our living room was all clean and pretty so I said sure. It took those two only minutes to throw all their books and toys all over the place. I was cooking a real good meal so Tat convinced them to clean it all up again. They both were by me when I was whipping up the potatoes. So I had to get two small bowls and spoons for them to have some. I did not let baby boy eat his on his own I fed it to me and boy did he like it. Once I had a change again I got everything ready and made my Dad's plate up and took it to his room. All I do is knock and he comes to his door with his hands out cause he knows I am there to feed him. I made Tat's plate up and one for baby girl too. I got out TV trays for both of them and one for me too. For our supper I made a real juicy pork loin roast, mashed potatoes, glazed carrots, and biscuits. Everything turned out very well. Bear walked in just as I began to eat and she got her own plate. When my daughter-in-law came back to get the babies I let her know that I feed them. Baby boy ate off my plate but did not want anymore potatoes he wanted carrots this time. He ate about half the carrots I had on my plate too. Both of the babies were tired and ready for bed when she got there. I myself was ready for a relaxing bath too. Babies get crabby when they are tired and these two are no exception. Baby girl pushed baby boy out of her way and he fell and cried so her mom got mad at her. I know when mine were that young I would get that mad too but now that I am grandma I handle them different. I waited awhile then reached down picked baby girl up hugged her tight and kissed her face all around and said I love you. She said I love you too grandma, with just alittle mad in her voice still. I held her close and asked her if she is going to have fun tomorrow in school? She got a bit more excited and said yes I will oh yes. Then I asked her if she is going to be a good girl now and she said she would and hugged me big. Her mom was looking at me like how did you do that? I said I am not mom I am grandma now and smiled. She will get it when being grandma is her turn. Oh my goodness I have been working for days on a computer from the tool room that just will not straighten out. I finally got together with Dennis the tool room head and between the two of us convinced Asshole to let us get a new machine for them. This weekend was Halloween. Tat and I did not go anywhere. Instead we stayed home watched TV and laid back. It was a nice relaxing weekend. Sunday my son and I decided to have breakfast at home instead of going out to eat. I baked the biscuits and he made the sausage gravy. I made a handful of pancakes and he fried up 2 packs of bacon. My Daughter-in-law made toast. The babies ate pretty well and tat had a few plates too. I even got a plate made for my dad. I took it to his bedroom door like I normally do and he was very happy about it. On Halloween I got a bad stomachache and had to lay down. I fell asleep and did not get to see my Babies in their costumes. I was sound asleep when they came upo to show me. Baby girl was real upset that I did not get to see her either. She pouted but went to Papa’s house (my mom-in-laws) and he gave then each a $1, Today after we had breakfast she wanted to stay here but her mom had it set up for her mother to come get them and take them to her house. They are having a dinner over there today I guess. I told her she could come back when Daddy and mommy take Jedi back to his mom’s. Oh speaking of Jedi. Billiam and Tat bought him two pairs of shoes. His mother would not buy him shoes even though she gets a paycheck every week. She had him wearing a pair of old shoes her mother’s old boyfriend left. They are a size 8 and the boy only wear’s a size 5. The old big shoes are bad for his feet and curl up around his foot. Tat said well if she will not take care of her son Papa will. He told him to only take one pair home with him and leave the other pair at my son’s so when the other pair get lost he will have then too. My daughter-in-law and son get him lots of clothes to wear to school but his mom does not wash them and will lose (or say she loses) his clothing. She is just a dumb ass goofy bitch. Well the lady who hired me over eleven years ago had a breast removed. I saw her in the office today looking better then ever. She had small breast and is padded I am sure cause you can not tell which one was removed. She was talking to the lady called Grandma and tell her about how her father of her baby says he wants to still be friends and see what happens from there but he is still going to see Chris the girl he'd been cheating on her with. The way she said that was like she had hoped that the surgery would have made he realize he only wants her. I really think she should just give that cheater up and move on with her own life. She is a pretty little thing and can get a better man that that. Oh she will have to stay on a friendly term with him so her son can see his Dad but she should dump the other ideas. I know how hard that is to do but I also know how much better off she will be if and when she does. Last night was Tuesday and we had the babies again. My son and his wife went Christmas shopping and put stuff on layaway. They could not take the babies so they did not see what they were getting for them. And they do not like to take them shopping with them anyway. I went and got my prescription right after work so I could get that done before the babies got there. Bear rode with me and we had a tough time getting through the construction traffic jams. I had to go round in circles to finally get to where I wanted to be and do a lot of waiting too. But I did finally get my Vicadin and went to the grocery store for just a few things for our supper. I made soft corn Pork tacos last night with the leftover part of the roast I had in the fridge. It turned out yummy. The babies brought a box of mac and cheese so I made that for them too. Tat helped me by feeding baby boy's to him so he could not make a big mess in my living room. I only have a small kitchen table and Tat would not sit at it anyway that is why I have 8 nice wood TV trays. But Tat normally eats in Bed he is just that kind of guy. Last night he ate in the living room for a change. Tat really wanted to get to bed and lay down and watch TV so as it got close to 8 he took baby girl into our room and had her lay with him so she would be rested for school. That really was a good thing for him to do too. Baby boy and I stayed in the living room and he had a blast Dancing to Dora when music played and playing with books and talking to grandma all by himself. Tat said Baby girl just knew she was missing all kind of fun out by grandma. She did finally fall asleep so when her mom came and got them she took her home 1st and Bear took baby boy for her. Bear said she did not seem happy about her bringing him home. But she said her brother was happy and said thank you to her. I do think my daughter - in - law was happy when Baby boy was scared of Bear cause he did not know her. But now he knows her and even gives her kisses. The only thing Bear needed to do around him was talk softer. She has a strong loud voice and has trouble controlling the volume. I have been teaching her to whisper, which comes out in normal volume then. Bear has a new friend out by our place and her name is Tera Lynn (insert last name here). I was really shocked when she told me that. Well at 1st she only told me Tera, and when I met her myself I told her how I use Teralyne as my game name. That was when she said her name is Tera Lynn. I guess that is one of Bear's friends I will not forget. Oh talking of Bear she got the stuffed bear's she had giving her grandma that my Dad gave back to her back from her old roommate. She had taken some of Bear's stuff and finally felt guilty and gave them back. Bear said she came into the apartment while she was not there and took some of her own stuff and some of Bear's stuff too. I could not believe how into my life this girl has become. The house we were looking at buying is two building away from where she is living now. This is one big reason NOT to get that place to me. I am not going to be looking to get any new place for awhile. It just gets to me when I think of getting into that kind of debt. I am buying this 2003 mobile home that I really like so why should I give it up and go to a house I might not like as well. The only thing that would be good is the land. Here I do not own the land my home sits on but once I have it paid off I can get some and move to it. I also do not want to do anything till atleast Spring time. I hate moving in the winter. Wow when it rains it pours here at work. I have been trying to work on a computer from the tool room that just will not do anything right. I am not sure what happened to it but it sure is messed up. Asshole finally said I could get a new computer for that spot so I ordered one. Then I began working on the computer of our respectionist and it is so slow. I have been working hours on it so far trying to speed it up again. I really want to wipe it off and start over with it but she has stuff that she needs on there. Then my boss Ted came to me and said his computer went to no signal. I set him up with the laptop I had locked on the desk of the girl who got let go awhile back. And I got him all setup with that. I got his hard drive out of his old machine (after I found out it was his motherboard that went bad) and made an external drive with it. Once he gets everything off that drive I will get it back (I hope) so I can have the enclosure again. I got a quote for a used system board for his machine but then found out it was only $26 more for a new machine. The machine I am trying to speed up it an old machine. So I turned the quote in explaining the used system board cost and how she would be better off with the new machine and I could then wipe the old machine and replace where the laptop was with that. I hope asshole lets me get the new machine since I showed savings and everything. My fingers are crossed here. I got my check today and balanced my checkbook. I was $3.71 off. I have no idea how I could have gotten off like that. Normally I am right on with my checkbook except those times my bank messes up and gives me money. That has happened twice within the last 20 some years. Both times it was off like $30. I kept track of it for 3 to 5 months before I spent that money. It never came back to bite my butt either. Both times I made sure I could cover it if I had to. But this time I am off for the bank instead of for me. Thank goodness it is only a small amount so I wrote an adjustment in my bankbook and subtracted $3.71 so I am right on again. I really am picky about my bankbook. It has been good in the past too so I will keep it up. Live hard, Love long, and Laugh often!!!! If you would like a notify when I update drop me an email and I will add you to the list. Thought stuck in my head; need to relax What I want today; more relax My mood today; relaxed of course

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